How many of us have family and friends who think that they are good people? They can't believe that they aren't invited to things, included in conversation. "I can't believe that I wasn't invited to that party or event." "I can't believe that I've been left out of (whatever it is)". "I can't believe that nobody is talking with me." They go around complaining about all of this and then make the statement, "I'm a good person." "I don't know what's wrong with people." That is where we go wrong with that kind of thinking.
The Bible tells us a different story about people, and their goodness.
Psalm 14:3 New Living Translation
3 But no, all have turned away; all have become corrupt. No one does good, not a single one!
You see, in our minds we are good. We do good things for our community. We have families. We aren't out committing any crime. We are productive members of society. This is our flesh speaking. We don't see anything wrong with how we are living. We think that we are good people.
Micah 6:8 Amplified Bible
8 He has told you, O man, what is good; And what does the Lord require of you Except to be just, and to love [and to diligently practice] kindness (compassion), And to walk humbly with your God [setting aside any overblown sense of importance or self-righteousness]?
How many people have you come across that really live like this? I can think of a lot of people who are not kind to anyone, nor show any compassion to anyone. Over blown ego's. They think that the world revolves around them, and they let you know it. No one lives up to God's standard. We think that we do, but alas we do not.
Romans 3:23 New Living Translation
23 For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard.
So I urge everyone tonight to continue to chase after God. Continue to seek Him and what He has for you. Humble yourselves.
Ephesians 5:1-2 Amplified Bible
5 Therefore become imitators of God [copy Him and follow His example], as well-beloved children [imitate their father]; 2 and walk continually in love [that is, value one another—practice empathy and compassion, unselfishly seeking the best for others], just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and sacrifice to God [slain for you, so that it became] a sweet fragrance.